“Relations ”
In this world, there are many relations,
But love and friendship, are crucial,
For heart to function.
The foundation stones for everlasting relations are:
Trust,
Understanding,
Commitment and caring;
There should not be any secrets, but only sharing.
Also,
The ideas, nature and mentality of two persons,
Should resemble;
The relation should be so strong, that no matter
What happens, it shouldn’t stumble.
The principles, values and morals of other person should be so
appealing,
That we can adapt them, and give our life a new meaning.
If one goes wrong somewhere,
Then other should correct.
If one hurts another unknowingly;
Then they should immediately regret.
What’s going on in one’s heart and mind,
The other should understand.
They should realize each other’s value, and
Preserve the relation like an emerald.
Apart from all these necessities for relation,
The most important one shouldn’t be forgotten;
Which is:
Respect for one another.
Even though two people are very closer,
At times, they should give some space and privacy to each other.
Only then the relation will breathe and progress further.
It is easy to create relations,
Easier to break them;
But, the toughest part is maintaining relations…
A relation is a responsibility,
That binds two people together;
Still, maintaining their individuality.
If we cultivate these things in a relation,
The relation will spread everywhere,
Love and affection….
In any phase and aspect of life,
Only relations must be given priority;
Anything else earned in this world,
Fades away with time.
But, only the love and happiness, that relations bring, lasts till
eternity…
10 Comments:
hmmm .. a very good read i would say ... practical also ...
The relationships one cannot just predict what all it can take into account ... almost everything .. every part of you ... be that be thoughts, heart beat, body langauge .... everything ... we do so many things as we are always trying to adapt ... be it be any relationship ...
kher i hope i would be practicall enough to be able to follow it and well whn sometime i deviate that means that u have just to tell me to get me on track as i am sure i wont deviate that far ... but u will have to tell ... most of times not telling is what disturbs and makes relationships fragile :)
take care and keep writing ..
love,
Kshitij
i trust u buddy, n am sure u wudnt deviate from our frndship...
n evn if u do... thn main hoon na...
just by chance reached ur blog.
really gud post.....u hav very nicely summarized the whole idea.although we differ a bit in our opinions.
wrote on a similar topic on my blog few days back.
wud really appreciate if u giv ur opinion on it.
bbye
hi mahek...that was quite rightky said abt relations: easy to make easy to break but so difficult to maintain...
well practically wat u wrote is just "bingo!"
but hav u ever thot of a relationship where u don hav to think u don hav to regret u don hav to even show respect or hatred...i think this is wat they call love...
@ vinal,
yeah love is something like tht ... but more than love , in friends you dont need to show all those feelings... love u hav respect , u do regret it at times... but true frnds u wudnt evr do it... thts wht i feel...
:)
Cheers,
Mahek.
hmmmm...pt. 2 b noted..then why the hell do we love sm1 wen u can be much closer being friends??....nature does hav lot in it.
@ vinal,
acc to me thrz a v thin line b/w love and friendship. While ur frnds with some1, u wudnt realise tht ur loving tht person too, and whn u realise its v diffcult for u to accept it. There are certain things which can only be felt in love and not friendship. Same thing can be felt in friendship too, but it depends on the level of your intimacy, level of understanding with the person. Such things arent much seen in our country but going out you would understand what i am trying to say. You always need some1 spl to love. Feeling of love is too different to be expressed in words.
Your friend can be love. But your lover can never be your friend.
@ vishal,
its v true. v simple explanation for tht -
ur love cant b ur frnd, coz u have shared so intmimate feelings vth him/her that being "JUST" friends isnt easy. Coz at end of ur conversation vth ur love, those intimate feelings do come out. Its very difficult to make ur love ur frnd later.
But ur frnd can alwaz be ur love. Coz he/she is jst ur frnd, tht person may or may not knw ur feelings, but thr isnt any sharing of personal and intimate feelings. and if there is then the friends are very emotionally attached to each other and they are tryin to avoid the fact that they are in love with each other.
:)
@ vish,
thr is sharing of personal n intimate feelings, but thn here the line of frndship n love blurs. its upto two ppl wht relationship they name it as, but our society wud tag it to b an affair where as it wudnt b the case between those two people. :)
since when friends started to care too much about society ... and well when u start hiding that starts hindering friendship ... and i disagree with you about that friends dont share, they at times share more than what is being shared among lovers ... and it just depends on people in love if they want they can also depart as FRIENDS ...
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