10 THINGS WOMEN DON’T WANT

Tuesday, April 18, 2006 | Relationships | YOU | MUMBAI MIRROR



1) Clingy/ needy behaviour: Do not display a clinging, "I -need-you-all-the-time" attitude. These arise mainly out of a constant fear of loss or a feeling of insecurity. If you give out a feeling to the woman that without her you will perish, it is surely going to put her off. Like calling her a million times, feeling envious of her friends, resenting anything that she does with anyone else other than you, are activities which completely thwart a woman's sense of freedom and she will vanish at the first available opportunity.

2) Pushy: When you display over-aggressive or bullish behaviour. Especially when it comes to a sexual relationship, some men bulldoze their way and force women to indulge in such an act. And of course, later wonder why they never derived any enjoyment out of it.

3) Bragging: She might be temporarily impressed with your bravado, but with your continuous narration of "I" stories - she will surely get bored. And most of all, don't you think you should hold her interest by giving out details part by part and not the whole thing in one go.

4) Violent temper: Train your mind to learn to control your moods and temper adequately. A controlled behaviour is the sign or a refined person. And a woman can not have faith in someone who loses his shirt or blows up frequently. She will be in awe of you but you can not win her confidence.

5) Boring: Men appear boring mainly if he is bashful or diffident and he is incapable of displaying his true character and persona.

6) Passive and indecisive: Women feel very secure when her man is able to take prompt decisions, stick to his decisions and displays other leadership qualities. You then give out the signal of being in control of situations, being able to provide for her.

7) Stingy and mean: This does not mean that you flood her with expensive gifts all the time, but if on a date... be prepared to foot the bill. Chivalry still pays.

8) Don't be boorish: Some men think if they act rough and bristly with women, they will give some sort of a macho image, or gather a kind of sympathy, so that the next step she will take is restore him mentally and co-operate with his attitude. Think again.

9) When you try too hard: When you pose to be the eager-beaver. Desperate to please. She starts to get wary and skeptical.

10) Sex on top of mind: It is perfectly alright to have sex in your mind. It is natural and women have that thought too. But if you approach her with this as the sole agenda of meeting her, she will run for life, and you will not even get a second chance to have her in your life.

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