Life yet again ... aspects ...

Life ... jst like leaf , changes its colour as and when season changes .. green when life is merry , orange when life has nothing much are what so ever ... how ever one wants to interpret one can .. but bottom line - life teaches and keeps on until we dont die , on our death bed to it teaches us and leaves its trail and we go away from this greedy selfish world , world of materialism , full of selfishness , full of lust , with meagre love and care.

Life aks us ample questions rather we ask life ample questions , answeres to which we assume not knowing , but it converse , its just that we pose question and answer is complex for us to understand and we keep avoiding it and so we either dont conclude to an answer or we presume no answer found !! What loosers we are !!

Is it life that teaches us or is it our social insitutions that teach us ... life is so complex to understand , so weird too so different , not gifted to all but very few , and people who are gifted feel so proud about it rather than feeling gifted. People make life feel its slave , but its again converse , its we who are slave of our own lives 'coz any time death can come and eat us , and who are we to stop it ?? Sheer meagre mortals , or may be puppets of THE CREATOR !!

Yet another Tag

Rulez of Tag same as alwazz ..... change ans, same Q's for all -


1) Single or Taken: Taken

2) Your Age:20
3) Birthday: 22 July 1985
4) Hair: Brownish Black
5) Eye colour: Black
6) Shoe size: 7 (i guess - it defers alwaz)

Full name: Mahek A Shah


1) Did you send this to your crush? Yes
2) Did your crush send this to you?: naah , most disliked person by me sent it

**o n S t u f f**

1) Where is your favourite place to shop: Anywhere whr i find clothes of my choice
2) Any tatoos?: No , but wud prefer 1
3) Do u do drugs?: Naaah
4) What are you listening to right now?: Sound of Silence
5) What car do you wish to have? ammmmmmm.... dunno , but the most expensive one :)
6) Where do you want to get married? On Ship

*FAVORITES*

1)Color: White, Black , Blue , Red , Pink... i love colors a lot
2)Subjects in college: I like History, Understanding Cinema.
3)Music: Soft

1) Given anyone a bath? : When my sissie was small i guess hardly a year or two tabhi i had givn her a bath ... ;)
2) Bungee jumped: nahi kiya parrr dying to do it ....
3) Broken the law: alwaz ... may be a movie will come on my name "The Law Breaker"
5) Gone skinny-dipping: naaay
6) Ever been in love: I have alwaz been in Love
7) Made yourself cry to get out of trouble: no , am not coward !!

**F i n a l Q u e s t i o n s **

1) How many people are you sending this to?: I am not sending , but tagging it to few frnds....
2) Who will send it back: They wudnt send it back , but tag othr ppl ;)

3) What is the last film you saw at the theatre? theatre :o well .... it was awesome experience ... gone to see Zeher last in theatre :P

Ths tag passes on to mitu , vish , kshitij , vinal , shaurya , rajat. :)
Happy Tagging :)

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very cute , alwaz smiling , alwaz flyin in airs , i am alwaz there to bug him , v sweet , has now learnt to tease me , else earlier it was jst me who cud tease :P , never on time :P , intelligent , alwaz keeps secrets coz i do keep them :P , talkative , hates being emotional altho he is , decent banda ;) , ready to help at n th hour. wudnt write his name coz am not sure wethr he wud mind being my frnd forevr ... but for me hez a forever frnd. guddie luck to u alwaz . :)

KsHiTiJ

we met through orkut .. jst coz of the cute pic he had uploaded and i had added him coz of tht :P warna nothin spl :P ;) jokes apart , tech fest changed a lot of things , we became gud frnds thn and came to know abt each other more. he thinks a lot coz of which ek din uska dimak bhrusht ho jaaye ga , alwaz there to help his frnds , v caring , makes me think abt my career :P , very emotional , very talkitive , motivating , alwaz accepts suggestions but not necessarily implemented unless hez not satisfied vth the suggestion , alwaz ready to do any new thing , frnds are his life. too good frnd and alwaz wud be :)

RaJaT

alwaz gives me lectures :( like a true frnd alwaz points out my mistakes , alwaz gives me candies for not to bug him , but now a days since hez on shore hez allowed me to bug me loads vh my letters ;) and so mez as alwaz never misses an opportunity to bug anyone :D (but i am not a bad frnd) well back to rajat , athletic body , talkaive , loves to be loved , likes photography altho hez marine engg and is lukin for his mermaid (dunno milli ya nahi) , alwaz active , honest & true , open minded (not conservative) , intelligen hai waise to and daring too , enjoys adventure , ullu , moving on as life flows , very good writer , uses too good flowery lingo which can impress any gal , bold & straight forward,v helpful and i love arguing with him. :) I am glad to have a friend like you dear , missing you. :)

*InDeR*

Words are too less to express about him ... met him coz of Amy & since till date i dont regret his friendship & wont ever happen so. Simple person , with lots of dreams & aspirations , very very patient , becomes naughty & kiddie vth me at times , dsnt evr get bugged whn i harass him , alwaz calm and at peace , has lot of understanding , alwaz honest & pure from heart , very loving & caring , alwaz there for his friends , makes me understand things when i get stubborn & dont listen to anyone , cant hide anything from him , catches hold of me when i sound diff ,i alwaz tease him , has lil male ego (which guy wudnt have !!) , no matter where and what hez doing hez there around me and vth me whn i need someone to talk vth esp him , altho i alwaz fight vth him for no reasons and catch hold a point which dsnt mean anythng he alwaz manofy's me , a cute and sweet sardar , looks smart , but galz BEWARE of his gf :P she'll kill u if u happn to eye him ;) and lastly a true friend for my life ....

^.^ Amy ^.^

Amy .. i happn to keep ths nick for him coz of a huge and big reason , and today i dnt regret for tht ...but yeah the name came up to build a false story (which amy regrets , i do but rarely) coz if ths story wasnt built things wud hav been a lot lot different. hai na amy ?? Meeting was by God grace & sheer luck i say !! Very loving , cute donald duck :P , not much talkative , haughty , punjab da sher , alwaz mingling , taught me value of frndship , made me understand what true friendship is , how to nvr let go ur dearest frnd , taught me to alwaz share feelings vth ma , nvr made me feel alone , alwaz helped me , showed be right way , alwaz protecting , hates mumbai :( and teases me. miss u dear . wud alwaz Cherish our frndship & three cheers to it :) . take care & ofcourse have a happy life vth ashu :).

`* Gaurav *`

Rude , but clean from heart , honest , true , caring.
My first net pal and still is a gud pal , alwaz helped me whnevr troubles came uninvited , loves harassing me and cant stop himself from giving me lectures - from religion to spirituality , from studies to career , inshort hez Jack of All & master of none , i guess now hez finally decided to be master of one and so is doing his MBA from some uni in UK ! It was his dream to go thr and he accomplished tht (by me coaxin to complete his grads properly in one shot !! and hey mez not bluffing) We alwaz supported each other a lot , and today we are poles apart (our timings dnt match to bug each othr :P) but whnevr v chat i have to agree tht i am dhakkan :P and he is some gr8 Mahatma :P His frndship means a lot to be due to a lot of reasons , and evn he knws it , but he alwaz has to run from ths fact :P God knows for what reason !! We enjoy talkin vth each othr and today i do miss him not being here in this dearie city. Wish u lucky luck dear , and hope u take over Reliance one day ;) (ur dream come rue :D) take care thr and yeah today i do wait for him to give me lectures (and if he reads all ths , he wud be so damn offended !! and will giv lec on life :P) sweet n naughty ... bhalu .. thts wht he calls himself... ly :)

~~ Rati

Proudy , selfish , rude , understanding , supportive , diplomatic , feirce , arrogant , dynamic , hot babe (my CB teacher calld her tht durin her presentation :P) , tryin to maintain her body healthy ;). Only gud and close frnd in this present college (more of zoo) , i alwaz take her alibi , my rescue ranger from my family ;) , alwaz on cell , flirting , money maniac , hates one fact in her life - why god happn to make her girl !! Dsnt like to be girlish (no wearin skimpy clothes - sproty clothes call her) tho shez becomin more of girly now , hates MATHS as much as i do and currently is bearing the pain for entrance of CAT (20 Nov) . Runs away from facts of life , likes to be famous ;) hates flowers as much as i love them
Loves dogs and dsnt like cute things :P
she means a lot to me , she knws tht ... Highly egoistic but whn needed shez upright thr. May our frndship alwaz be so Forever :)

Krupa~~

Rude, naughty , caring , bossy , dominating , lazy , sleepyhead , practical , extrovert. She too is my frnd from frst year of college , but we were just hi bye kind of frnds thn. Act na we were group of 18 , and i wasnt so close to her thn. But as i came closer to Rohish , i came closer to Krupa too coz they both were carryin around thn. Thru Rohish i got to knw more abt her , and thn thr was apoint of time whn i would tell krupa frst abt thngs happening around me than rohish. Shez alwaz been around me whnevr i needed her. Today both of bear distance coz of lack of communication , but we both knw one buzz is enuf for us to be vth each othr. And i have deicded her marriage gift too (evn she knws the gift). Act she happn to demand it frm me... pyari si hai , par bohut hi shhort tempered hai and lil selfish too. F.R.I.E.N.D.S. Forever we would be dear friend. Miss talkin vth u. Take care and guddie luck to u alwazzzzzz :) We call her krupdi :P and tease her a hell lot.

Rohish

akdu hai , egoistic hai , but hez alwaz around me whn i need him. My friend from my first year of college life , but came to know him more only whn he started helping me in knowing my first college crush ;)
It was during my 11th std summer vacation , that i got a chance to knw him more. Sweet hai , but as alwaz has very high male ego (which i hate in guys). First friend to be by my end , aftr i was completely shattered on 7th March 2004. After that incidence i realised no matter where i am or where he is , i do have one guddie frnd to be by my side. He was around me whn my "So Called Best Friends" left me. Pehle kabhi nahi socha tha , ki i find a guddie frnd in him , but God was by my side , and yes in my first year of college i get first true friend for my life. Rohish may not know this , nor does he know about this blog , but yeah its my promise to him F.R.I.E.N.D.S. Forever !! :) Hez a typical Jain Gujju guy , bought up vth traditions & believes a lot in them (which i dnt) , but v nvr argue upon tht coz he very well knws i wudnt chage my beliefs nor wud he. Both of us are stubborn heads!!
But yeah he does get unreasonable and unreahable at times , but thts wht he is. Very emotional & haan emotional blackmail karna koi ussey sikhe :P Gud Luck to you dear frnd , May God Bless You :)

F.R.I.E.N.D.S. Forever...

F.R.I.E.N.D.S.

Who dont need them?? In every walk of our lives , whether good times or bad times , they are with you if they happen to be your true friend. All of us have lot of friends , but have we ever thought how many of them are true , or who is really a good friend of your or who isnt with you for any selfish reasons !! Chahe kitne bhi khush kyu na ho hum par doston ki zaroorat hamesha hoti hi hai , coz jo place friends ki hoti hai woh nahi koi family member le sakta hai na hi koi relative. We do say that my mumma or my dad is my best friend , but how much of it true?? How really feel that we can share evrything with mumma or dad (who consider their parents to be their guddie frnds). Well lemme keep ths apart.

Friends !! One can not live without them , and if a person isnt having any friends or doesnt like to be Friends with anyone then that person is a big looser , rather he or she are big time loners.

True meaning of Friends / Friendship can not be defined but is a realisation. A realisation of a bond that is shared between two or more persons. A bond unbreakable , very true , very strong , very different.

If I wouldnt have had Friends I really where I would be today!! May in some No Mans Land which wouldnt have access of and for anything.

All the thoughts here seem to be very vague , very abstract , wihtout any links , but from this post on , I would be talking about a few guddie Friends i possess and whose friendship I would like to cherish forever in every walks of my life. Most of my friends who i would be describing here , dont go through this blog here , but I wouldnt stop myself from talking about you all. Another thing , without you friends I am sure to be lost somewhere.

Cheers to our Friendship Today & Forever...

Most of you wouldnt be interested in knowing them , but this post is dedicated for someone , who is awaiting to read this. Very soon will write up about a guddie friend I possess. :)

Deepawali Experience

First of all lemme wish all my friends a Very Happy Diwali & a Prosperous New Year.

Diwali - Festival of lights. Brings brightness & cheerfulness in a persons life. People burst crackers out of happiness (at times show off) , women at home do rangoli , diya's are lit to welcome Goddess Laxmi (but vth changing tresnd lights are put up for decoration - loss of asthetics alas!! )

But what about the people who are forbidden from it? Who doesnt want all the beautiful things of life? What about those deprived? By not lighting diya's wouldnt Goddes Laxmi enter?

Anywaz, dont wanna discuss this here. Just wanted to share a small lil experience that i happen to have this Diwali.

I was too excited for this Diwali (dunno for wht reason). Woke up early and made rangoli for all the days. Lit up diya's. But didnt burst crackers for quiet few but imp reasons. But this time i was too excited to see people bursting crackers esp whn the crackers emitted light.

A new building has come up besides our building. And on other side of my building , there is a slum area. In that building (new), a well to do family stays. The family is of husband wife (somewhr in 50's) and son (20's) and daughter. On Dhanteras night , the family got down to burst crackers. As soon as they started bursting , most of the building kids (4yrs - early teenagers) came down & joined them in bursting their own crackers (both noisy & light ones). I was delighted to see the kids being so happy and recollected my childhood days - the fun , masti we kids used to do.

After a few minutes , the kids from the slum gathered to see the crackers being burst. They were getting soooooo delighted & were enjoying sooo much that a very different angelic smiles was seen on their face. A smile that rarely comes in misery , a smile full of joy , full of life , full of wishes (unfulfilled)

The son from tht well to do family shared his crackers with the kids of the slum !! What a generous act i must say. The joy on the faces of the kids reached no bounds. Jumping & Laughing & giggling & playing , they burst the crackers with that rich guy. (he is rich coz he owns 3 cars !! )
I just imagined what a man he is !! He gave joy to deprived kids & gave them such a beautiful gift (unasked). The sight was just amazing. I myself am following short of words , but i hope you guys understand the meaning behind all this.

I happen to share this incident first vth my mumma. She said that the guy did a very good act coz giving joy to the deprived kids is really good. Not all have that big heart , not all do it selflessly , not all are generous. So true my mumma happn to say. Its a 'punya' that you gain by doing such gud deeds without any selfish act.

One promise i happn to make to myself this Diwali. Although i dnt burst crackers , but its not that all dont do it. Lot of people (esp kids) enjoy them. In future when i earn i would give this joy to the deprived kids. Share my joy vth them & make them feel the real Diwali.

Deepawali laaye khushiyan sab ke ghar ,
badha sakte hai hum woh khushiyan ,
ektrit ho kar hum sab.

really dunno wht did i write last up there. but real diwali is when you share & spread love and bring smile & joy on every ones face.