Speaking Eyes **^^**

Eyes speak
Dont They??

Interactive Johari Inference's

Arena (known to self and others) bold, caring, loving	Blind Spot (known only to others) able, accepting, adaptable, cheerful, dependable, energetic, friendly, helpful, independent, intelligent, mature, responsive, sentimental, silly, sympathetic, tense, trustworthy, warm, witty
Façade (known only to self) confident, modest, quiet	Unknown (known to nobody) brave, calm, clever, complex, dignified, extroverted, giving, happy, idealistic, ingenious, introverted, kind, knowledgeable, logical, nervous, observant, organised, patient, powerful, proud, reflective, relaxed, religious, searching, self-assertive, self-conscious, sensible, shy, spontaneous, wise

Dominant Traits

66% of people think that Mahek is friendly
66% of people agree that Mahek is loving
66% of people think that Mahek is trustworthy

All Percentages

able (22%) accepting (11%) adaptable (11%) bold (33%) brave (0%) calm (0%) caring (33%) cheerful (11%) clever (0%) complex (0%) confident (0%) dependable (11%) dignified (0%) energetic (22%) extroverted (0%) friendly (66%) giving (0%) happy (0%) helpful (11%) idealistic (0%) independent (11%) ingenious (0%) intelligent (44%) introverted (0%) kind (0%) knowledgeable (0%) logical (0%) loving (66%) mature (33%) modest (0%) nervous (0%) observant (0%) organised (0%) patient (0%) powerful (0%) proud (0%) quiet (0%) reflective (0%) relaxed (0%) religious (0%) responsive (11%) searching (0%) self-assertive (0%) self-conscious (0%) sensible (0%) sentimental (22%) shy (0%) silly (11%) spontaneous (0%) sympathetic (11%) tense (11%) trustworthy (66%) warm (44%) wise (0%) witty (11%)

Created by the Interactive Johari Window on 29.4.2006, using data from 9 respondents.
You can make your own Johari Window, or view Mahek's full data.

??? dont knw wht it is .... ???

What happens in life is never known to anyone.
What is expected in life though known, but rarely achieved!!
What should be done, is all there in the box provided to a human...
What is the outcome, is very unpredictable
What is the situation is just known to person going through it..
What are the facts is alwaz different from what is seen by the blind eyes
What would happen in such an unpredictable world itself is unpredictable!!
The cycle of life moves on... the pains never stop.... pleasures are never reduced... but the pain which cant be borne is tough for a person to go through ... phase of life which makes person think about life in such a bitter way ... that the person would die to get one reason for smile ... a reason to live ... people who arent futuristic give up in mid way... others struggle ... thrive to leave ... thrive for peace .. thrive for their indiviuality... thrive for their success ...
hurdles are faced ... they are no less then slaps on face of a culprit... but not alwaz the struggler is culprit... slap makes him feel a looser ... to push him further down in life ...make him feel alone ... make him feel left out ...
looking ahead in life... people fight back ... fight for winning the loosing battle ... stugglers are winners in some way ... people who dont fight back and listen quietly are biggest loosers .... each an every individual is a winner in his own sweet way ... his sweat of brow pays one day ... thinking this ... he gets hope .. a reason to smile ... a reason to move forward ... a reason to live ...
live life ... enjoy life ... live life king size ... never loose hope ... hope .. a reason for survival ... for me ... for you... for all...

10 THINGS WOMEN DON’T WANT

Tuesday, April 18, 2006 | Relationships | YOU | MUMBAI MIRROR



1) Clingy/ needy behaviour: Do not display a clinging, "I -need-you-all-the-time" attitude. These arise mainly out of a constant fear of loss or a feeling of insecurity. If you give out a feeling to the woman that without her you will perish, it is surely going to put her off. Like calling her a million times, feeling envious of her friends, resenting anything that she does with anyone else other than you, are activities which completely thwart a woman's sense of freedom and she will vanish at the first available opportunity.

2) Pushy: When you display over-aggressive or bullish behaviour. Especially when it comes to a sexual relationship, some men bulldoze their way and force women to indulge in such an act. And of course, later wonder why they never derived any enjoyment out of it.

3) Bragging: She might be temporarily impressed with your bravado, but with your continuous narration of "I" stories - she will surely get bored. And most of all, don't you think you should hold her interest by giving out details part by part and not the whole thing in one go.

4) Violent temper: Train your mind to learn to control your moods and temper adequately. A controlled behaviour is the sign or a refined person. And a woman can not have faith in someone who loses his shirt or blows up frequently. She will be in awe of you but you can not win her confidence.

5) Boring: Men appear boring mainly if he is bashful or diffident and he is incapable of displaying his true character and persona.

6) Passive and indecisive: Women feel very secure when her man is able to take prompt decisions, stick to his decisions and displays other leadership qualities. You then give out the signal of being in control of situations, being able to provide for her.

7) Stingy and mean: This does not mean that you flood her with expensive gifts all the time, but if on a date... be prepared to foot the bill. Chivalry still pays.

8) Don't be boorish: Some men think if they act rough and bristly with women, they will give some sort of a macho image, or gather a kind of sympathy, so that the next step she will take is restore him mentally and co-operate with his attitude. Think again.

9) When you try too hard: When you pose to be the eager-beaver. Desperate to please. She starts to get wary and skeptical.

10) Sex on top of mind: It is perfectly alright to have sex in your mind. It is natural and women have that thought too. But if you approach her with this as the sole agenda of meeting her, she will run for life, and you will not even get a second chance to have her in your life.

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Your Ideal Relationship Report... tickle.com test

Mahek, the thing you need most in a relationship is

Deep Connection

In your ideal relationship you and you partner would be deeply and passionately connected. This sense of intimacy is really important for you. As is the need for certain rules and an understanding of who wields the power in your relationship. But regardless of how this works, your deep need for this kind of closeness will ultimately drive your relationship.

There are 2 overarching themes that determine the kind of relationship you ultimately desire: the kind of intimacy you want to have with your partner, and the amount of flexibility you want to have within your relationship.

But as concepts, "intimacy" and "flexibility" might seem too broad and vague to fully comprehend. Because of this, psychologists have broken them down into subscales that will help you understand more clearly what intimacy and flexibility really mean for you in the context of a relationship.

The kind of intimacy you want is determined by three subscales: the kind of support you want, the depth of connection you want, and the amount of sharing you'd like to do with your partner.

The amount of flexibility you want is also determined by three subscales: who's in control of the relationship, how much do you want you and your partner to grow with one another, and how many formal rules or guidelines do you want to establish in your relationship.

When taken as a whole, all of these scales together help identify the relationship best suited for you, they determine your ideal relationship.

Read on to understand more about them, and to see how you scored on all of them.

Intimacy 95%

Your ideal relationship involves a high level of intimacy. Basically, intimacy describes the level of emotional closeness that you desire in your ideal relationship. More specifically, when it's broken down, the level of intimacy you desire is determined by three distinct ideals: how much support you need, the depth of connection that you desire, and the amount of sharing you want to do with your partner. These three elements of intimacy — support, depth of connection, and sharing — are described below. But generally what this means is you desire a relationship in which you give and receive a lot of support and in which you feel intimately bonded with your partner. You believe this will create a high level of trust and respect in the relationship. You also want your partner and you to be able to openly share your experiences and feelings with one another.

As indicated earlier, your intimacy score is composed of three parts: support, depth of emotional connection, and levels of sharing. Given its complexity, intimacy can look quite different from one relationship to the next. You can get a better idea of what makes you more or less of an intimacy-seeker by looking further into these three aspects of intimacy.

Support 10 Points
Supportiveness is characterized by the level of acceptance you have of one another's flaws, the fairness of your interactions, as well as the level of respect and trust you have for one another. These traits vary depending on your personalities and how strongly you feel about one another.

In your case you desire a very strong level of support in your ideal relationship. You believe that if you can be trusting and respectful towards one another, it will permeate everything the two of you do together. You are accepting and warm, generous with one another, and determined to be fair.

Depth of Connection 9 Points

Depth of Connection refers exactly to the level of connectedness in a relationship. When you're deeply connected with someone, you're sensitive to the time you spend together and the frequency with which you are together. At this level of connection, any change in your bond can be disruptive. Depth of connection also refers to the degree to which each of you strive to accept and understand one another as a unique individual. Lastly, depth of connection also involves how much communication you desire and the amount of unity you want in your relationship; some couples remain more separate than others even though they are committed to the relationship, while others prefer such a close merger that the two people effectively become one.

In your case your ideal relationship has a high level of depth. Your ideal relationship would have you so joined at the hip that any time spent apart might at times feel intolerable. You enjoy getting to know everything you can about your romantic partner — who they are and what they want in the relationship. It's important to you to spend almost all of your time together so that there is a sense of security in the relationship. With this level of depth, it can be somewhat threatening when separation appears likely or imminent. But the joy of being deeply and intimately connected is a stronger force than is the threat of losing that person.

Sharing
People share many things in a relationship. You may share some aspects of yourself and not others. Or it might be very important to you to share everything. How much sharing you desire depends on your need for privacy as well as how well you want to understand life from another person's perspective. Sharing means telling each other about what you're thinking and feeling, the life decisions you're trying to make, your dreams and hopes, as well as your past experiences. Disclosing these things is more comfortable for some than it is for others.

In your case your ideal relationship is full of sharing. You want to know your partner's dreams, thoughts, feelings, aspirations, hopes, past experiences — the list is really endless. And you want to share the same with them. This level of disclosure and intimacy is what makes a relationship complete for you — your ideal relationship, at least. You want to share your life with your partner as fully as you can. For you, that means building a partnership where you can be honest with what you are feeling and where there are no surprises jumping out at you as a result of your partner failing to fully share with you.

Now let's look at the second dimension that helps determine the shape your ideal relationship should take.

Flexibility 30%

Your ideal relationship also involves a low level of flexibility. Flexibility refers to many different things, including your willingness to grow with your romantic partner over time, both as they change as well as when you change. Flexibility indicates your tolerance for weathering storms and for enduring those difficult challenges in life that arise. It also includes the balance of control in your ideal relationship -- the more that either party is controlling the relationship, the less flexibility there is. We will delve into each of these aspects later sections of this report. But generally what it means for you is your ideal relationship is one in which one on you holds more power and control than the other in the relationship. You desire many rules, regulations, and mutual understandings that will keep your relationship structured and less prone to confusion or conflict. In this relationship, change is usually unwelcome due to your comfort with the status quo.

Now let's take a closer look at various aspects of your flexibility score. For this test, your overall flexibility score is determined by three subscores: control, growth, and formality. You can get a better idea of what makes you more or less of a flexibility-seeker by looking further into these three areas and by seeing how you measure up on the different scales.

Control 50%

Control is determined by evaluating several different aspects of the power balance in a relationship. First is something called "locus of control," which essentially indicates whether or not you feel that you have some hand in steering the direction of your relationship. Obviously it takes two to tango in a relationship, but that doesn't always mean that each of you have an equal feeling of control. For example, does one of you tend to always get blamed when something goes awry while the other receives every bit of credit when all is well? Another aspect is the authority you assume or want others to have over you — do you like to take charge in a relationship or do you like your partner to have the reins? Lastly, control involves the division of responsibilities that each party in a relationship is willing to take on. Essentially, do you want to handle all of the tasks in your relationship or would you prefer for your partner to do almost everything for you?

In your case you don't want to make all the decisions or assume all of the responsibility, nor do you want your relationship partner to do it all either. It is when things are most balanced that you feel most comfortable with the power dynamic in your relationship.

Growth 9 points

Your desire for growth with your romantic partner is the second area that contributes to the overall flexibility dimension. Desire for growth varies greatly from person to person and is dependent on several different things. First, growth is assessed by your willingness to weather the changes in your relationship and by how much change you are comfortable and capable of enduring. This aspect gives an indication of just how much you would be willing to sacrifice in order to stay in a relationship that is working for you. Are you out the door at the first sign of danger or are you willing to take the changes in stride so that you can stay together? When your partner goes through hard times, will you be there when they emerge from their slump? All of this is indicated in your growth results.

In your case your ideal relationship is very strong and committed to growth. Regardless of the changes that you may face, you will stick together. You are willing to sacrifice a lot for one another and for what you think is right. No problem is too big for you to deal with together— you are committed to doing everything you can to work things through.

Formality 2 Points

Formality is third component of the flexibility dimension. It indicates the degree to which you desire a structure and a set of guidelines to govern your relationship. Rules are the biggest part of formality and where you can see the most notable differences between partners — some people run their personal lives as a business and others operate as a free-for-all. Depending on the level of guidelines, rules, and conventions you are comfortable with, your formality score will vary.

In your case your ideal relationship is very informal. Rules and regulations, guidelines and conventions are all left at the door when moving from the outside world to the world of your ideal relationship. In your eyes, more structure leads to less intimacy and less breathing room for you and your partner. Only with a laid-back agreement can you relax and make the most of your relationship.

At this point, you should have a really clear picture of what your ideal relationship looks like. This in-depth understanding of what you value should be helpful to you as you continue the quest for your life partner. After all, if you know what you want, you are more likely to recognize it when you see it.

But, once you find your mate, it is likely that you will hit some bumps in the road — after all, it is rare relationship that doesn't have some difficulties. As such, we want to give you some personal insight and tools that can help you avert relationship problems and pave the road for a smooth relationship ride.

Problems You Might Encounter


Every relationship has problems, so you should come to expect some difficulties and do what you can to prepare for them — without also driving yourself crazy trying to stop bad things from happening. Depending on your relationship style, there are some particular problems that you are most likely to experience in your ideal relationship. You may not be able to prevent these problems from happening altogether, but when they do strike, perhaps you will be able to solve them more quickly.

Ultimately, with enough practice, you will be able to spot problematic patterns that are inherent to your relationship style and even anticipate them before they happen. That way you can keep your relationship in tip-top shape. After all, we all know that the ideal relationship is hard to come by. But with an understanding of your personal relationship style, creating a relationship closer to your ideal is well within your reach.

As you recall, your ideal relationship style is one with a Deep Connection. You tend to want a high level of intimacy and not much flexibility in your romantic relationships. This relationship style will work well as long as your relationship doesn't hit any big bumps in the road. But if a serious difficulty does surface, you are in for a challenge. The problems you are most likely to face are in regards to the intensity of the relationship coupled with its relative inflexibility. This could result in a suffocating situation in which your relationship is full of passion but there simply isn't enough room to breathe. Without enough flexibility to weather the wild fluctuations that you might expect from an impassioned, intense relationship, you could find yourself in rough waters.

In the face of problems, a power imbalance may develop that you feel is unfair and damaging to your connection with your partner. The loss of intimacy can be very painful, and the inability to express what you're feeling can lead to a rapid decline in what was once a very enjoyable relationship. To prevent this from happening, it may be worth your while to go against your inclination of keeping to yourself and instead share your feelings with your partner. By compromising somewhat, you will potentially create a connection that has an increased level of flexibility and that will have more power to withstand the inevitable twists and turns of any relationship. But remember that it takes two people to make these changes, so your partner also has to be willing to meet in the middle.

Now that you have some actionable information for how to avoid the potential pitfalls of your relationship style, let's take a look at how committed you are to finding true love.

Your Desire for Commitment 9 Points

As you could probably guess, there really is no right or wrong answer to what constitutes the perfect level of commitment. What matters most is what feels best for you at this moment and that you are clear with yourself about what you want before you throw your efforts into a relationship.

No matter the level of commitment you desire, it is usually best to communicate what you want upfront. However, this is easier-said-than-done, because most of the time people don't have the benefit of knowing where they really fall on the commitment spectrum until it becomes clear later on in a relationship.

You may think that you have no interest in a serious relationship — and then one day you meet that spectacular someone. Or the reverse may occur and you may suddenly realize that you really don't want a relationship after all. Fear is one huge obstacle to a commitment, whether it's something a person realizes they have or not, and it can derail what could be an ideal relationship. Given that commitment desires are hard to pinpoint, even in yourself, it's a good idea to at least try to align goals for the relationship and to get straight with your partner on your general feelings about love.

Relationships that Work

What works in a relationship can vary greatly from one couple to the next. After all, each individual has unique needs so there couldn't possibly be one secret formula for creating a perfect relationship for everyone. However, research does show that there are patterns that tend to lead more often to mutually satisfying, pleasurable and steady relationships.

You can look at your ideal relationship qualities as examined in this report and compare them to the qualities that have been shown to be characteristic of relationships that work. Based on this comparison you can decide whether the ideal relationship in your head is the one you want to keep for all time, or whether you'd like to bend it a bit to match more of what has been shown to work for others. Granted, what works for others might not work for you, so in the end, you may to need to simply listen to your gut and follow your heart.

10 ways to make your relationship more successful:
Make sure you want to be in a relationship and that the person you are with is right for you.

Give your partner the benefit of the doubt — assume that they are trying their best to make you happy and are acting with your best interests in mind.

Be a little flexible in terms of how much closeness and togetherness you need.

Learn how to communicate in ways that will promote your relationship and build closeness and understanding between you. For example, show respect, not criticism.

Learn how to love yourself and how to be in touch with your own emotions — don't deny or suppress what you may be feeling or thinking.

Find ways to keep the passion in your relationship alive.

Learn to tolerate adversity and stress.

Experience life together as an adventure.

Accept each other's idiosyncrasies when it comes to sex — working it out can only maximize pleasure.

Take time out of each day to grow your relationship together.


History Behind the Test


The content for this test was generated from a combination of sources — several books describing relationship patterns, what makes a relationship work, what relationship styles have already been determined, what relationship dimensions have been identified. We used all of this information to create this test, along with Tickle's in-house psychological and statistical expertise. We based a lot of the structure for the content on "Relationship Dynamics" (Musgrave & Anniss, 1996). Some of the content was also based on this reference. This structure and content was then modified to be directly applicable to romantic relationships and cannot be applied to general relationship dynamics. By combining this science with that which can be found in the texts below, we constructed our own definitions of dimensions and relationship styles, which we then validated empirically (by looking at users' responses to the test) in order to generate accurate, reliable reports.

Chocolates can be good for the body

Wednesday, April 12, 2006 | Health & Fitness | MUMBAI MIRROR

Chocolate

As opposed to popular myth, chocolate doesn't cause acne or migraines. And it contains some of the same heart-disease-and-cancer-fighting antioxidants found in fruits and vegetables. While it is high in fat, research has shown that stearic acid, the main fat in chocolate, does not raise cholesterol. In fact, chocolate increases serotonin in the brain, which means it's a mood booster.
Try:- Dark chocolate. More pure chocolate means it contains less fatty cocoa butter.
Skip: - Chocolate bars filled with caramel, marshmallow and other fatty fillings.

It’s all about the chemistry

Wednesday, April 12, 2006 | Relationships | YOU | MUMBAI MIRROR

How can you tell if the chemistry between two people is steaming hot or if they are the subtle, lets keep it low variety? Read on for signs that will tell you how to spot sizzling chemistry between two people, both for yourself and in general:


Talk to the hand

In this case the hand means the wrist. If two people are exposing their wrists to each other, it is a subconscious display of being submissive to the other, the body language reads — if you want me, come and get me.


Give ‘em the shoulder

Another good way to detect some serious chemistry is to notice the shoulders. Shoulder orientation is one of the most obvious signs of attraction. Basically, the two smitten ones will face their upper body towards each other. In essence, you point your shoulder at what you want.


Lean on me

Leaning forward is also an easy sign to pick up. If the shoulders point at each other and the two people are leaning forwards towards each other, it is a sure sign that sparks are flying.


Eye Effect

When there is chemistry between two people it is almost like a drug. Therefore the person’s pupils will dilate (get bigger) while looking at the other. However, keep in mind that lighting can greatly affect this. For instance, if you are outside when the sun is present, the pupils may appear to be very small no matter how much attraction is being felt, and vice versa.


The Flip
If you notice a woman flip her hair, or a man constantly fiddling with his, and immediately after, they glance in the other’s way, he or she is showing their interest, trying to get their attention by making eye contact.

According to clinical psychologist Seema Hingorrany, who runs a private practice in Bandra, a good relationship is one in which two people come together not because they have to, but because they want to. They are with each other, not because they are incomplete people but because they want to share their completeness. Here are the reasons according to her, as to when there can be such high levels of chemistry between two people.

Intimacy: Relationships where emotion is experienced in depth and with intensity. Where two people are able to articulate and express their emotions well — the magic works.

Compatibility: Two people who are in tune with each other’s activities, movements and are connected with each other not only at an emotional but at an intellectual level also.

Communication: When there are no barriers and ego issues and communication gates are open. Such relationships thrive on a healthy environment. Here both the partners know when to exit an argument and also control the situation when it is getting out of control.

Giving Space: A healthy relationship is all about giving and taking some time to explore more about the other and yourself. People who respect their partner’s need for space and don’t feel threatened by it means the relationship is going great

Physical Intimacy: A mutually satisfying sex life is a prerequisite for a beautiful relationship.

Humour: Is important for defusing tensions and the appropriate usage of words in relationships can create beautiful sparks, which is much needed.

Maturity: Not being or behaving like a child who is whining or complaining. Rather, you are a person who is calm, focused, who listens and negotiates. Such relationships click really well.

Empathising with the person: When you are stepping in to the shoes of your partner to realise what he or she is going through, you build a bond. This concern you show is the main reason why the relationship is working.

Acceptance: Accepting your partner the way he or she is and not trying to change his or her natural self or their natural identity.

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HOW TO MAKE HER FANCY YOU

Thursday, April 13, 2006 | Relationships | MUMBAI MIRROR | YOU

Most men have it all wrong when it comes to enticing women. They use the worst of strategies like pick-up lines and end up spoiling it all for themselves. The reason being that women are experts at sensing who is a real man under the surface… and if you aren't the type of guy she's looking for, no “pickup line” is going to cover it up. In order to get women to like you, you need to improve the real you instead of sticking to the same old approach that usually backfires. Here are some tips to help you do that.


Lead the Way

Women hate it when a man is afraid to
lead the way... whether it's choosing a restaurant or what they would want to do. Women don't like to bear the burden of making decisions. To develop the leader within you, practice leading the interaction. Decide where to go, when to meet her and what the two of you will do. Be the “man with the plan” – she'll love you for it.


Learn from the Best

Maturity is one quality that all women seek in their man. One way to develop a mature perspective is to be around older and wiser people, like your father, and discuss with them what matters in life. They will be able to add a better perspective to things the way you see it.

Take responsibility for your life While on the path to becoming the type of man a woman wants, you have to learn to take personal responsibility for everything in your life. Notice how the choices you made in the past led you to where you are; and whenever you find yourself in a messed-up situation, stop blaming others. Look at how your choices have gotten you there. Refusing to be a victim is a sure-fire way to a fulfilling life and might also help you stand out from the other guys she has met in the past.


Learn to keep your Power

Most men give away their power to a woman to get their approval and attention, or they let people just walk all over them. The ironic thing is that women don’t want men who give away their power! It's a huge turnoff to them. Women like powerful and reliable men who can take a stand when required. They feel safe with them as they know that such men will be able to take care of them. So when you learn to keep your power, you will attract stronger and better women.


Allow yourself to Grieve

Most men are taught to act tough and to conceal their feelings. And since the first feeling that comes up for men in emotional situations is grief, men have been conditioned to “slam the door” as soon as the grief starts. But a real man learns to grieve consciously... to let the grief in. He knows it's a healthy process. When you allow yourself to feel grief when it comes up, you open the door to a much richer emotional life. Think about times in your past when you have stopped yourself from feeling grief. The next time it starts to present itself, remember to allow yourself to feel it. In the process, you'll become a more emotionally well-rounded guy – the kind of man that “has it together”, understand emotions and someone who is not insensitive, and that is one quality women absolutely love.


Continue to Learn

To truly become a man who naturally attracts women, you must continually work to improve yourself. Read books, go to seminars, talk to people and listen with an open mind, and take action; do whatever it takes to continually add to your knowledge base and make yourself a better person. Just the fact that you are on this journey can be very attractive to most women. When you are truly on the path to success, women will feel it when they are around you.

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100 Reasons when SMILE brightens my face

1) When is see my ma and her shweet shweet words

2) When my dad kids around vth us ... ;) (v rare but damn enjoyin)

3) When I get to irritate my lil sis whn shezz damn bugged vth me , and the stupid comment she wud make abt me, and the annoyin smile on her face is awesome

4) Flowers -- so pretty , girls fast friend , sooo colourful how can some1 hate them ?

5) Chocolatzzz -- wooooooow the greedy grin , to eat them all up by myself is the only thot ... chocolatzz anothr frnd of gals (esp meeeee)

6) After a tiring day , some one just asks how are you, you need anythng ??? Smile of satisfaction..

7) While presenting a goof up takes place , and ma'am says good presentation :) Smile of achievement

8) When evrything seems to be correct, but all of sudden a buddy calls up and says lec's tomoro morning at 7.30am :(( Smile of dismay

9) A small chotu baby , looks into my eyes and tries to hold my finger n gives a shweet smile.... moment to catch hold of, the baby wins my smile

10) While travelling, when a kid cribs to get something from his mother, i get back to my childhood days... smile worth it

11) Smile when i happn to see a long lost frnd on roadside n while jst catchin up the frnd discloses some embarassin moments ... smiles turing to laughters

12) Thinkin how kiddish i was when i used to cry for petty thngs being a kid ...

13) Smile when i recollect the best days of my life

14) Smile when unexpectedly a friend msgs, when i hav jst nothing to do ...

15) Smile when someone calls me vth a spl name ... diff for diff closed ones ....

16) Smile wwhen i made my uncle take me back home in mid night, when i had promised to stay ovr nite at my aunts place... how styuppid i was.... (still i'm)

17) Smile over the small / big quarrels i used to hav vth my sis

18) Smile when my dad made my elder sis kiss me in local train coz we had fought ...

19) Smile when i get surprises (which are known to me before hand ;)) coz it made others feel happy about the surpise given to me ...

20) Smile while giving names to friends

21) Smile over the stupid tricks i happn to do to avoid certain thngs

22) Smile over the goof ups and still not caught for it :P

23) Smile when i get call from buddy

24) Smile when i am around spl ppl

25) Smile when everything is just okay and satisfactory

26) Smile when my granny shouts at me (sho cute ...)

27) Smile when i am made to feel spl

28) Smile when ppl in my class are jealous of me :D (i finally did it)

29) Smile when my group was in gossip in class (how stupid was it !!)

30) Smile whn unexpected mail turns up in my mail box ... also wwhen expectedd mails turn up

31) Smile at the stupid things i did when i was in 11th.

32) Smile at the times when we stood united in class and never fell, lesson learnt from history ;)

33) Smile when i see my childhood pics (natak nakhre .. tauba tauba)

34) 3 beautiful words ... i love you .... 2 words ... missing you ... enough to melt :)

35) Thinking about some1 spl who would hold me forever in my life (khayalon mein...)

36) When my parents would be proud of me

37) Stupid caricatures my sis does of me :P

38) When i read weird horoscopes (nvr turin true)

39) Harry Potter .... tooooooooooo goooooooood

40) I Scream, you scream , we all scream for ICE CREAM

41) Bugging people .... hehe.. ek din pitai hogi meri

42) Untouched , unforgetable, unshared moments of life ... not known to ne1 :)

43) When my meet my frnds .. meeting up smile

44) On thought that would i be typical indian bahu.. :P n i lol ... :))

45) When my b'day approaches, i grow old by age, but more kiddish in nature

46) Seeing no. of fans i have on orkut .... (are they really fans?? ... wonderzz)

47) On seeing a cute white meow welcoming me in class alwaz (my coll pet)

48) Seeing cute dogs...

49) While going through the cards that i have collected over years .... mesmerziing

50) Knowing that... I am being loved by all

51) Seeing the sunset ... and thinking ahead ....

52) The beautiful mornings during exams ...

53) To see the doves , sparrows, parrots together

54) Enjoying days in my "gaav" (village)

55) Looking my room full of gifts of loved ones

56) Softty soffty toys...

57) Shopping ... clothes... accessoriess...

58) When i was paid for frst time for work i did

59) The much awaited n longing cell phone was in my hand ...

60) When i slapped a guy !!

61) Acting as cupid for my bro :P (arrow alwaz missed the gal)

62) When i was satisfied ... i have FRIENDS FOREVER too

63) Booookkkkksssssss .... mez not a geek, but books my second goood friends

64) On thinking that i used to call myself Chahek & not Mahek :P

65) When my childhoo stories are told and again told to each and every guest who comes to my place... and mumma still cant stop herself from tellin those stories

66) Got to know what love is ....

67) Hera Pheri... gosh ... movie name makes me smile... movie makes me go crazzzzzy

68) Listening to never ending stories of one of my best friend

69) On thinking how simple my frst presentation was (so dry--> v bad) , and howw the best was my last presentation in BMM

70) Got my fav stream of studying

71) Monkeyss... :P

72) Bitching... :P girlie stuff... naahhhhhhhhhhhh evn guys do it...

73) When i see my frst crush... :P

74) When i was asked to go abroad for dance performance (common phenomenon today but 7-8 yrs back it was wuuuuuuuu)

75) At the thot tht once i wantd to aspire somethng soooooo diff frm today .. :P

76) When i was takn to see circus for frst time

77) When i had my own cycle....

78) On thinking abt ppl who taught my soooooooo much in life ... Thank You All :)

79) On thinking never have i been fooled on April Fools Day :P

80) How i screwed my frst job interview... No regrets :D

81) Playin in the building for hours of no end... n not coming back home till 12 in the night ...

82) Yelling as kids while travelling in train (outstation) whenevr a den would come .... wwwwwwuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu

83) When my cousin lil bro kissed me on my bruise ... sho shweet

84) On thinking abt werid future

85) When i was shouted for, when i used to talk for hours of no end on phone

86) How each passing day teaches somethng ... daily i am taught tht do not be lazy n sleepy :P

87) College changing my life

88) On saying TWO FAT LADIES for "88" :P

89) When my school's ex-princi still calls me naughty

90) The day when i forgot to tell my dad, that we have to fill forms for our secondary education, and how i was made mamu by the princi of school n my dad

91) When my youngest cousin sis used to call me bro :P

92) When i know i have someone to lean on when i wanna cry, someone to hug when i am insecured, someone to fight with alwaz, someone to talk my heart out, ...

93) Knowing that i would die in peace ... but come back to harass frnds :P

94) Knowing that i am gonna grow old and die :)

95) Knowing that when i wake up in morning its going to be bright new day with new spice of life

96) The wet smell of sand ... rain dance ... "peacock-- tagged once while goin to coll"

97) When loved ones around me are happy coz of me ...

98) When think about the weird stories in my head ... devils n angels in my mind nvr leave me

99) My family, my friends .... thts it !!

100) When these 100 reasons are just not reasons but my life ... :)

got buggedd ??? thts wht i alwaz doo ... ;)
heheee...

I Want To Know

I want to know, when day is done,
That life has been worth living,
That I have brought somebody joy
Through kind, unselfish giving.

I want to feel, when evening falls
and shadows quickly lengthen
That I have made somebody glad,
Some weakness I have strengthened.

I want to know that come what may
I've left some cheer and gladness;
I want to feel at close of day
I've banished someone's sadness.

I want to feel at close of day
That someone's cares were lighter
Because of kindness I have done,
May someone's life be brighter.

A Gentle Touch

Author: Danyka A. Hoover

A gentle brush of his fingers,
Sending shivers down my spine.
In the love I see in his eyes,
Is a love that equals mine.

He greets me with a smile,
And leaves me with a kiss.
If he were to ever leave me,
I couldn't imagine what I'd miss.

Maybe it's his touch,
Or the way he makes me feel.
But whatever it is,
I'm head over heels.

Bengali song

tomake bolar chilo
joto ami gaan gay...
joto gaan geye jay
sob gaane sob sure...
tomake bolar chilo....
bhalobasi....


shiuli jhora sokale
udasi kono bikele
eka eka kaane kaane....
tomake bolar chilo bhalobasi....


anek bolechi tobu
bolar ja bolini tai...
ki kore je bole pheli...
athocho bolar chilo bhalobasi....


na hoy bolini ami ...
bolle na keno tumi ....chaoni ki tumi ota...
bolte moner kotha bhalobasi......

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a beautiful bengali song...

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Mahek, Freud would say your personality is most affected by events that happened when you were between a year and a half and three years old.


Relative to others, your personality today is moderately affected by the events of your childhood. This manifests itself in surprising ways. For example, you have a tendency to be especially orderly or clean. Compared to others, you may also harbor a strong rebellious streak.

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